Last night you might have seen my post on Instagram about having the kids vaccinated for our upcoming trip to Vietnam. It wasn’t fun, so I thought I would provide some tips about what I learnt last night.
I won’t lie, I felt terrible for them and the two little ones aged 6 & 8 years we had to pin down, this of course makes it much worse as their little muscles are then tense therefore making the injection more painful. This is very difficult to explain to them, as their level of understanding stops as ‘its going to hurt’.
So here are some tips that I think can help others:
Not everything went to plan for us and we had told the kids on the way to the doctors on Thursday night what would be happening. We got the script from the doctor and when to the chemist. The chemist didn’t have them in stock. This meant that we would have to wait until the next night and also have them the opportunity to stew about it all day. If you have a child like Alannah, she was thinking about it all day long at school and of course the anxiety had started to build before we even got there.
I think this ones a no brainer! Don’t let the other kids see whats coming. Craig is much better at anything medical than I am and he is also the strongest so it was best that he went in with them. Don’t make the mistake of going first as once they see that needle it will be ‘all over red rover’! This way you can also take a minute to wipe the tears and get the child to put a brave face on before the next one goes in!
We took Alannah in first, reason being that she is the oldest and we could reason with her not to frighten the little ones when she came out. She came out with red eyes but put on a smile and told Keira and Caelan that it tickles. Caelan then went running in saying ‘I’m next’. Little did he know! You could hear him screaming from the waiting room and Keira started to believe that maybe this didn’t tickle so much. The cat was out of the bag and Caelan walked out crying and said ‘It doesn’t tickle at all Keira’. This is when the fun really started.
This is the part I hate the most. Last night we had to hold Caelan down for the second one and the first one for Keira. Surprisingly, Keira wasn’t too bad on her second but her screaming made up for it. Its the look in their little eyes that does me in every time. This took the two of us, Craig had to hold the top half of them and I had to hold their legs so they didn’t kick the poor nurse. If it can be done without hold them down, its much better as their little arms aren’t tense and this is where the damage is done and it also makes it worse afterwards.
The line ‘it will all the worth it in the end’ doesn’t really resonate with them but its the truth so I told them. They both said at some stage that they would prefer to stay home with Nan than have the injection! Not sure Nan would be too happy about that one. The good thing is that it does sink in, Keira told her gymnastics teacher this morning, ‘it hurts loads, but it will be worth it!’
I said to the doctor last night once I realised that they had to have two that it might be best to do one now and one later. She looked at me wryly and said ‘do you really think they will come back?’ Good point! So we decided that a double whammy was the way to go. One in each arm. Not sure what you would do if you need to have three or more but I’m glad I didn’t have to find out at this stage. Also another thing I am going to try and do is keep the vaccinations up to date so that we don’t have to have heaps at one time again.
We all do it right? Some good old fashioned bribery never hurt anyone. Use whatever works. I would have bought them a house last night but they settled for $5 to spend at Woolies on lollies. That assisted with a quick recovery and took the focus off what had just happened. Oh and pizza for tea that helped too. We also went home and had movie night to keep them calm and quiet.
Now if thats not all enough, I have to mention it, if you think thats all bad wait until the next day! The Typhoid vaccination is very painful the day after and all three of them and myself are suffering today. I gave them panadol last night as it was painful when they went to bed. No one slept well including me and Caelan got up in the middle of the night with a very sore arm. They’re not doing much today, we have watched Harry Potter 3 and Keira went to gymnastic’s. She did ok but did struggle with the strength work.
Everyone is very tired today, we were suppose to go out for dinner but I have had to pull out. Hope my friends don’t hate me. The kids are just exhausted and Caelan looks like he is coming down with something. I too feel like I have a cold coming on but probably coincidences as it is the middle of winter in Melbourne and its probably my turn, I have managed to stay well all season. Craig on the other hand is fine and off to the footy.
Finally be prepared for the bill! Last night cost us just short of $1000! Yes you read that right, the vaccinations cost us more than our return flights from Melbourne to Vietnam! If I had of known this I would have started planning earlier to spread out the costs. A friend said that we could get away without having cholera and typhoid but I wasn’t prepared to risk the health of the kids to save the dollars. Craig and I are going without the cholera, I have the scripts and if I change my mind getting closer to our departure date I will just get it done then.
If any of you are able to add to my tips please leave a comment below as I’m all ears. Last night was pretty traumatic for all of us. Any tips no matter how small will be welcome.